A thought-provoking piece. I love the way it challenges us not to assume a marriage is over "just" because the "in-love" feeling has gone. One idea (if the relationship is otherwise respectful and you're generally on the same page about the important things) is to commit to the life you've built together and to continue on building it, perhaps adjusting what it will look like in future. If you work well as life partners, it might not be necessary to throw it all away and you could share a different kind of happiness together. Just thinking out loud here!

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